How to Get the Most Out of Future Self Journaling

How to Get the Most Out of Future Self Journaling

Intention Setting

I’ve been doing active work to create a new version of myself for years now.

I’ve practiced so many different techniques to condition my mind and heal my body. One of the most powerful tools I found in my own life is what I call “future self journaling.” After I saw the shifts it created in my own life, I had to make a version to share with the #selfhealers community.

For the past couple of months I’ve seen thousands of you download and use the journal. I’ve got messages from around the world from people who are experiencing healing, self growth, and manifesting things they’ve always wanted.

It brings me so much happiness to see people benefiting from this powerful tool.

After spending over an hour a day, answering questions about the future self journal, I realized I needed to write a blog post that answered the most commonly asked questions. I want each of you to get the most out of future self journaling, so here it goes.

Why do future self journaling?

It’s magic! I kid.

Future self journaling works because it creates conscious awareness around your behaviors and patterns. For many of us, this exercise is the first (and only time) we’ve done this.

I talk often about the subconscious. Subconscious literally means below awareness. It’s the mental software that was created in our childhood while our brain was in a theta hypnotic state. We needed this mental software to learn how to “be” in our world. As children we had to quickly learn the language, social norms, how to communicate, and what was expected of us from our caregivers. We didn’t get to consciously choose what beliefs and behaviors we wanted to adopt.

They were chosen for us.

By age 7, we became conscious as our brain waves shifted. We continued to operate under this mental software unaware of its existence.

We spend 95% of our time in the subconscious.

Every time we are doing something without being fully present, the subconscious is running. We run on autopilot. Think about your drive to work. Your mind may be thinking about what you’ll do that day at work, or the fight you had with your partner last night. Yet, you’re making all the right turns. You’re breaking at red lights and driving when you see green. The subconscious is at work. When you start paying attention, you’ll see just how often you are in this state.

In order to change our behavior, we have to become conscious to our subconscious behavior.

By being present and aware of our habit loops, we can start to shift them.

Future self journaling a tool that allows you to start becoming conscious. The more you use it, the more your consciousness will expand. It’s in this expanded consciousness state, where you find the ultimate empowerment: choice in response.

How do I begin?

You begin on page 1 titled “Self-Awareness.” This step is only done once for each habit you want to work to change or develop. You use this format to find the behavioral patterns that you want to change. Note: I do get messages from some people who can’t figure out what it is they want to change. This means you need to observe yourself before you can begin. If you don’t know what you want to change start your day with this intention: “Today I will notice behaviors that are holding me back from my highest potential.” Do this for 1-2 weeks. Write down (or enter into the notepad on your phone) the insights as you get them. Then, you can begin Step 1.

Step 1: Self Awareness

I will go through some examples below:

1. What behavior or pattern do I want to change? Focus on ONE.

“I want to stop becoming defensive in my day to day interactions”

2. Write affirmations or statements that will help you achieve this. Let these flow naturally. Do not overthink this:

“I am able to hear other perspectives.” “I am calm” “I create space between my reaction” “I am safe within my body”

3. Write how you will be able to practice these new behaviors in daily life:

“I will practice observing the feelings and thoughts that come up rather than habitually reacting when interacting with my family.”

After you’re finished Step 1, you don’t need to complete again for at least 30 days or until you successfully see change. Then you can start working on a new pattern. You will now go onto Step 2.

Step 2: I will go over examples below:

My daily affirmation:

I am calm and peaceful. I am able to observe and not react

Today I will focus on shifting my pattern of:

Habitually reacting to situations when facing an emotional trigger

I am grateful for:

The opportunity to become a different version of myself. My pets, my family, the ability to create, my favorite hiking trail

The person I am becoming will experience more:

Joy, gratitude, abundance, and ability to live in the present moment

I have an opportunity to be my future self today when I:

Pause and listen rather than react

When I think about who I am becoming I feel:

Confident, fulfilled, proud of my healing

Now that you have some examples, I will answer the most FAQ about future self journaling.

“Do I need to do it every single day?”

Yes. This technique uses neuroplasticity. Our brains are plastic, which means through intentional acts we can change the pathways in our brain. However, it takes consistent repetition to change these pathways. This practice only takes 5-8 minutes a day which makes it easy to complete daily.

“What if I skip a day”

No problem. If you skip a day, this is not an issue. Try to avoid assigning meaning to skipping a day (i.e., “I never finish what I start”, “I’m lazy”). Affirm to yourself that you will start again tomorrow. With each new habit there are times when we will not show up. This is part of the path of learning to trust yourself. Today is one day. Tomorrow is a new opportunity.

“I have major resistance to journaling. I just can’t seem to start. Help”

Resistance (mental chatter) is very normal. We typically have resistance to the things we need to do most for our evolution. The subconscious mind is very powerful, and when we attempt to break up its patterning, there will be a mental temper tantrum. You might feel anxious, scared, or even completely blocked off from doing it. Overcoming this is part of the process. Each time you make the choice to do the practice even though your thoughts may be yelling to do otherwise, you are overcoming your mental resistance.

Don’t focus on it being “perfect” or if you are doing it “right.” If you can only do one question, just do one question. Build up each day. The act of completing a task you’ve committed to will be helpful in your healing.

“You show yourself journaling in the morning. Does that mean it’s the best/right time?”

If you follow me on Instagram, you’ve seen me journaling every single morning. This is the time that works best for me. It’s when I’m in the most creative and relaxed state. This is different for everyone. Some of you might want to do it before bed. Others might like to do it during a lunch break. The time is unimportant. It is the act of completing that is important. You might want to experiment with a few different times to see what works best. There is no “right” time to do future self journaling.

“I am not having any breakthroughs. Does future self journaling work for everyone?”

Future self journaling can work for everyone. It’s the act of becoming consciously aware. However, it’s just a pathway to that awareness. You will start to be more aware of how you’re thinking and behaving. The more you commit to the practice, without judging the experience, the better your results will be. Expectations around a “breakthrough” might actually be blocking your awareness.

“I don’t want to keep the same pattern for 30 days, can I change it?”

You will get the most benefit if you stick to one pattern. It will allow you to focus your full attention on making that one change. You’ll want to try to stick it out for at least the entire 30 days to ensure that you are well on your way to saving this new habit as a new subconscious pattern.

“I’m skeptical about this working”

This is mental resistance and it’s normal. Don’t focus on being skeptical. Focus your awareness on the questions. Answer them with as much clarity as you can. As you go through the process the skeptical resistance will fade.

Is it ok if I type the future self journal?

Yes. But you will get more benefit by writing. Neuroscience shows us that writing connects differently in our brains.

I’m struggling with _______ what should I journal about?

You might come up against mental and emotional blocks during this process. Figuring out this process on your own is an important part of healing. Don’t worry about doing it “perfectly.” Focus on connecting to you own inner voice.